Megyn Kelly TODAY | Unification Church member details getting out, finding happiness
Lisa Kohn became a member of the controversial Unification Church when her mother joined in the 1970s. Life in the church was full of hope until she began asking questions about its beliefs. Kohn, who details her experience in her book to the moon and back: a childhood under the influence, joins Megyn Kelly TODAY to share her internal struggles faced when trying to leave and how she found happiness when she did.
Radnor Memorial Library | to the moon and back: a childhood under the influence
Hear Lisa’s story of a childhood torn between two worlds. Her early years in the 1970s in New York City with encounter groups, macrobiotic diets, communes, Indian ashrams, and watching naked actors on off-Broadway stages during the musical Hair. By the time she was 10, her mother had her pledging her life to the Unification Church (the Moonies).
Marie Claire | What it’s Like to Grow up in a Cult
Lisa suppressed her feelings for boys (dating was strictly prohibited), and first began questioning the church’s teachings when she was nearly 17 after attending a summer arts camp, where she made friends who were gay.
Woman who grew up in the cult reveals her mom abandoned her family then married a near-stranger in a mass wedding – and sent her teen daughter across the US to help ‘lovebomb’ new recruits for the second ‘Messiah.’ Lisa Kohn, now 54, first came into contact with the Unification Church in 1974 after her mother attended a speech by Korean founder Rev. Sun Myung Moon.
Fremont News Messenger | Faith: Kohn shares views and life story in ‘to the moon and back’
IndoctriNATION | March 2019 Lisa Kohn Interview with Rachel Bernstein
Rachel speaks with Lisa Kohn, leadership consultant and author of to the moon and back, her memoir that details Lisa’s childhood in the Unification Church. How did Lisa feel growing up in a cult? Would she and her Mom ever leave or would they be lost to the Moonies forever? Tune in for a great story on growing up in a controlling environment, perfecting “that Moonie smile”, then developing your own point of view, and breaking free.
i24 | November 2018 Lisa Kohn Interview on i24
Lisa Kohn says her dad was an addict and her mom was part of a religious movement considered a cult. So how did she survive that? She wrote a book.
Philly Life & Culture | November 2018 Book Review: “to the moon and back”
As author Lisa Kohn’s debut solo book, “TO THE MOON AND BACK: A CHILDHOOD UNDER THE INFLUENCE” is an autobiography about growing up in the East Village of New York as a member of the Unification Church, or the Holy Spirit Association for the Unification of World Christianity. As Kohn put it, they were “the cult of all cults in the American age of cults.”
AfterEllen | November 2018 On Finding The Truth: I Grew Up In a Cult, and Left.
Lisa became best friends with Rev. Moon’s children and a frequent guest at his dinner table or in his pool.
Stroller Traffic | November 2018 Becoming A Parent Changes Everything
Becoming a parent is overwhelming and terrifying for many, and for those of us who had less than optimal role models in our own parents – or no role models at all – the terror and uncertainty only increases.
The Philadelphia Inquirer | October 2018 Wayne woman’s memoir reveals fraught childhood under the sway of Rev. Sun Myung Moon
“Now 55 and a leadership consultant and executive coach in Wayne, Kohn has chronicled her tender years in the Unification Church — a cult, she calls it — and her indelibly scarred adulthood in a memoir published last month, titled to the moon and back: a childhood under the influence.”
Folks talk about cults everywhere from People Magazine, to The Today Show with Megyn Kelly, and now on The Running Lifestyle Show. Lisa Kohn, the author of To the Moon and Back: A Childhood Under the Influence—also November’s Book of the Month—shares how being raised in a cult has impacted her own life, family, and professional contacts.
GretchenRubin.com | “I Just Have to Choose to Notice the Good and Allow Myself to Enjoy It.”
Lisa Kohn had a challenging childhood. Her mother was a member of the Unification Church, founded by Sun Myung Moon, and her father was part of the life of New York City’s East Village in the 1970s. She was caught between two wildly different worlds, and this shaped the way she saw the world, herself, and other people.”
Lara Lillibridge | September 2018 | TBR Tuesday Review: To the Moon and Back: A Childhood Under the Influence by Lisa
“If you have ever felt as if you don’t belong, this book is for you.
If you have ever felt as if you have to twist and turn to get your parents’ attention, this book is for you. If you have struggled with self-destructive behavior in an effort to mitigate emotional pain, this book is for you.”
The Chad Benson Podcast | September 2018
To the Moon and Back with Lisa Kohn
In Conversation Podcast | September 2018 | In Conversation With Stephen Hurley – Lisa Kohn (to the moon and back)
“Lisa’s newly released memoir tells a powerful story of how, over time, she has come to terms with a life defined by insecurity and absurdity and has learned to live a life of joyful presence.”
Fashion Magazine | September 2018 | Who’s Most Likely to Join A Cult? We Ask a Former Moonie
“I think we run a risk when we think that only some people could be susceptible to cults.”
Women For One | September 2018 | One Woman’s Story of Growing Up and Leaving a Cult
“The best seats Lisa Kohn ever had at Madison Square Garden were at her mother’s mass wedding, and the best cocaine she ever had was from her father’s friend, the judge.”
For Every Mom | August 2018 | Becoming a Parent Changes Everything: 6 Truths About Raising Kids
“Becoming a parent is overwhelming. Often times terrifying for many. For those of us who had less than optimal role models in our own parents – or no role models at all – the terror and uncertainty only increase.”
HowToLearn.Com | August 2018 | How Parenthood Changes Everything
“She says: That may seem like an obvious statement, but many of us don’t contemplate it when we decide we want to have children. Instead, we feel the desire and choose to move ahead – and then the due date comes or we get the call from the adoption agency (or both), and poof, as if by magic, everything has changed overnight.”
Raw Story | August 2018 | Ex-cult member explains how she got sucked into a right-wing group — and her ‘beyond terrifying’ experience of trying to flee
“Lisa Kohn, a former member of the Unification Church cult led by self-proclaimed Messiah Sun Myung Moon, has opened up about her “beyond terrifying” experience of leaving the church while she was just a college student.”
Business Insider | August 2018 | I grew up in a cult — and there is nothing more intoxicating than knowing you have the ‘Truth’
“The best seats I ever had at Madison Square Garden were at my mother’s mass wedding, and the best cocaine I ever had was from my father’s friend the judge.” This is how I describe my childhood.
If someone is old enough to get the first reference, they know that I was raised as a Moonie — a member of the Unification Church, a follower of the self-proclaimed Messiah, Reverend Sun Myung Moon. Either way, they generally look at me a bit more weirdly, and often, as one new friend said, come out with something like, “But you seem so normal.”
Thrive Global | August 2018 | How To Stop – Or At Least Live With – Those Silly Voices In Your Head
You’re not crazy if you have “that voice” – but it’s certainly not helping you. There are ways to lessen it’s negative impact.
“Summer is a time many of us look forward to and long for. Long days. Chilling in a hammock or on the beach. Barbeques, cold beers, time just hanging with friends…or playing with our kids. We remember the endless summers of our youth – catching fireflies, licking dripping ice cream cones and bomb pops, spending afternoons in the lake or the pond or the pool – and envision what a wonderful season we’ll have. | Then reality hits. There’s too much to do, too many emails to answer, and too many responsibilities. | And then it’s fall.”
Thrive Global | June 2018 | If Only My Younger Self Knew These 10 Things That I Know (And Am Learning) Now
What wasn’t on my mind was what would happen next. I knew I was headed home to New York City. I knew I had to get a job. Some kind of job. I knew so very little else – though being 21, I probably thought I knew a hell of a lot more.
What did I wish I knew then – my unaware, clueless self? Here are a few of the top things.
“If writing is an evacuation tool to process and understand abuse, Kohn has done an excellent job of producing a text that oozes with honesty and truth.”
I used to think I was the one with a past. You know, “a past.” A past that set me apart from everyone else and that had, pretty much, damaged me beyond hope. I was raised in a religious cult by one parent, while my other parent’s religion was sex, drugs, and rock and roll. Two contrasting, competing, diametrically opposed, weird – if not harmful – worlds.
Growing up in a cult, your brain is filled with false truths and lies. You know you’re sinful. You doubt yourself. You’re filled with shame and self-loathing. Life with my father required vigilance. My role models there were dope-dealers and hippies who had my brother smoking pot at the age of ten because it would be “cool.”
She Knows | May 2018 | How I survived a cult
When you have learned and believed that there is a Truth and that there is “right” and “wrong,” it’s terrifying to walk away from what you have known as right. One of the things about mind control and extremist situations is that they teach you that questioning and doubting are signs of weakness and sin.